How to Use Valentine’s Day to Manifest the Relationship You Desire

Whether you are already in a great relationship or you are still seeking your beloved, you can use the energy of Valentine’s Day to your benefit in your love life.

Some years ago, I was in a relationship that wasn’t going the way that I wanted. The man I was dating was wonderful in many ways, but he was distracted by a heavy load of responsibilities, and things like Valentine’s Day simply didn’t seem like a priority to him, even if that didn’t reflect his feelings towards me.

Needless to say, I did not see things this way. I absolutely love everything to do with Valentine’s Day. The flowers, candy, sweet cards, a chance to dress up and go out for a beautiful meal with my favorite person - what could be better? These are some of the most wonderful things in life.

So it happened that one Valentine’s Day, I found myself alone. How to deal with this? I’ll admit, situations like this are extremely difficult for me. Like a lot of people, for me, being alone on Valentine’s Day is one of the worst things in the world. My first reaction was to be depressed, angry, and lash out, all of the things that will guarantee to make you feel even worse if you indulge in them, and possibly end your relationship.

There is a lot of energy floating around this day. Some of it is lovely, full of the desire and beauty of a life filled with love. And some of it is the opposite, broken hearts and disappointment. You can use this to your advantage if you are skillful.

Whatever part of this you are feeling, my advice is to use positive manifestation techniques to “tune in” to the reality that you would like to see in your life. If you see people posting about the great time they are having on social media, lean into that, feel it, and feel what it would be like to have that for yourself. Your Instagram scroll is a virtual dream board if you cultivate it to show you beautiful images of what you would like to have and really feel it.

If you are feeling negative, turn those thoughts and feelings that don’t feel so good around by starting a manifestation list that details what it is that you really want. The key here is to get an image of your desire and really feel how wonderful you would feel if you had it now, with as much detail as you can. This may seem too simple, but every Law of Attraction or New Thought technique boils down to basically this, and it can work powerfully if you do it consistently.

The basic formula is Image + Emotion + Letting it go = Manifestation. There is a lot of material out there on this subject. I can personally attest that Abraham Hicks and Lynn McTaggart’s techniques are some of the most powerful, but go with whichever technique calls to you.

The other way to deal with this is magic. The relationship I mentioned above did not work out, but it did leave me with a very nice list to use as a lover drawing petition to bring in someone new. One major item that I included for the man I wanted to draw into my life was that he loved romantic things like Valentine’s Day, and that we would always spend it having fun together.

This is the beauty of lover drawing magic. You can be as detailed as you want in your petition, and the spirits of Venus will do what they can to bring a person into your life who is as close to your desire as they can.

I am constantly surprised at how much the spirits I work with want for people to have the things that they desire. Angels in general seem to be working towards a reality that is wholesome and good on a grand scale, and good, lasting relationships are part of that vision.

So if you are looking to attract a new love into your life, start that list, and reach out to talk about how a lover drawing could support you in your search.